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Letters to a Young Poet
A book of letters from a poet to a young cadet torn between two careers
Why it’s worth your time
Not knowing what you want next can feel like a problem to fix by Friday, when it's often a question you'll carry for a while. Rilke's letters to a young man weighing writing against the army refuse to decide for him, and that refusal can be oddly steadying. Read slowly, they make good company for an unresolved season at work.
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- Start with the first letter, then the fourth.
The first is his answer to the request for a verdict on the poems. The fourth, from July 1903, holds the passage about living the questions. One letter at a time works.
- Write down the question you're living with.
One line is enough: should I stay, do I still want the next level, what would I do if this team disappeared. Under it, list what you love about your work now, what you'd happily stop doing, and what you wish were part of it. Pick one thing from the first or third list to do a little more of this week.
Good moments for this: when you're between answerswhen a big decision is comingon a quiet weekend morning
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Making it work for you
Every workplace is different. Here’s what to think about before you start, and what might get in the way.
Things to think about
Do I want this career and do I want this manager can feel identical late at night, and they call for very different moves. Writing the question down plainly is often half the sorting.
What might make this harder
The letters won't help much against a clock. Write down what you'd need to believe to say yes, check the few facts you can this week, and decide. The bigger question can keep going afterwards.
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What is Letters to a Young Poet about?
Ten letters Rainer Maria Rilke wrote between 1903 and 1908 to Franz Xaver Kappus, a young cadet who wanted advice on his poems and on whether to choose writing or the army. Rilke wrote back about solitude, love, sadness, patience and trusting his own judgment.
What does Rilke mean by live the questions?
That some answers can't be reached by thinking harder. He asks Kappus to be patient with what's unresolved and to live with his questions until, gradually, he grows into the answers.
Which translation of Letters to a Young Poet should I read?
Whichever edition your library has is fine for a first read. Charlie Louth's for Penguin Classics and Damion Searls's, which also prints Kappus's side of the correspondence, are two of many.
What it says, and how it holds up
Some career questions don't give way to more research: whether you still want this field, whether the restlessness is about the job or about you. A young cadet named Franz Xaver Kappus brought a question like that to Rainer Maria Rilke in 1902, sending his poems and asking, in effect, whether he should be a writer or an officer. Rilke declined to critique the poems and sent him back to what actually moved him to write. He was 27 at the time, and between 1903 and 1908 he wrote ten letters, which Kappus published in 1929, three years after Rilke's death.
Read at work, the letters are less about poetry than about where you look for an answer. Career doubt tends to send us outward, toward more opinions and more lists of pros and cons, and Rilke keeps turning the young man back to his own judgment and then asking him to give it time. Penguin's description of the book counts the nature of advice itself among its subjects, and that may be the thread most worth bringing to a working life: what someone else can and can't tell you about your own.
The letters have been translated many times. Publishers Weekly reviewed Damion Searls's 2020 version for Liveright, which also prints the young poet's own letters to Rilke, found in the Rilke family archive long after the first edition. How things turned out for Kappus is worth knowing too. He stayed on the army path, which Rilke's fourth letter affirmed while telling him to wait and see whether it cramped his inner life, served as an officer for 15 years, and also worked as a journalist and editor. He kept writing, and he's remembered mostly as the man these letters were written to.
The letters have less to offer on any question whose answer lives with other people. Rilke could send Kappus inward because the question was whether he had to write. Whether your company will promote you, what a role pays, or whether your team has room for the work you want is something you learn by asking.
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