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Stumbling on Happiness
A psychologist's book on why we're poor at predicting what will make our future selves happy
Why it’s worth your time
Before you bet a career move on how it will feel, Daniel Gilbert's Stumbling on Happiness is a good-humored warning about how often those forecasts miss. It matters most when you're choosing a job, a move or a promotion on the strength of a future you've only imagined. It won't tell you what to choose, but it may make you more careful about trusting your own prediction.
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- Read the book.
Gilbert sorts the mind's mistakes about the future into three broad kinds; notice which ones you recognize from your last big decision. By his account, the book ends by describing a more accurate way to predict what you'll enjoy, one that research shows people generally won't use.
- Ask someone living the future you're imagining.
Before your next big work decision, find one person already in the role, team or company you're weighing. Ask what an ordinary week feels like, not whether they'd recommend it.
You“I'm thinking about a move into a role like yours. Could I ask what an ordinary week actually feels like?”
Good moments for this: before you accept an offerwhen a promotion is on the tablewhen you're sure the next job will fix things
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Making it work for you
Every workplace is different. Here’s what to think about before you start, and what might get in the way.
Things to think about
A job description, a recruiter's pitch and a final-round lunch are the material a forecast gets built from, and the dull middle of a week rarely comes up unless you ask about it.
What might make this harder
Ask a friend of a friend, or someone in the role you can reach through a former colleague. A short, specific question can get a reply where a request for career advice might not.
Questions people ask
What is Stumbling on Happiness about?
A 2006 book by Harvard psychologist Daniel Gilbert about why people are poor at predicting what will make their future selves happy. It draws on psychology, neuroscience, philosophy and behavioral economics to explain the mistakes imagination makes.
What is affective forecasting?
The term Gilbert and the psychologist Tim Wilson use for predicting how you'll feel about future events. Their research found people regularly mispredict those feelings, for large events and small ones.
Will a new job make me happier?
It might. Gilbert's work suggests we tend to overestimate how good a good outcome, and how bad a bad one, will feel, so it's worth checking the forecast against people already in the job.
What it says, and how it holds up
Daniel Gilbert came to this subject through a run of events that should have flattened him. In an interview published by his publisher, he describes a stretch in which he was getting divorced, his teenage son was in serious trouble, his mentor died and he fell out with his best friend, and he coped far better than he would have predicted. That gap between the feeling he expected and the one he got became his research. With the psychologist Tim Wilson he gave the act of predicting future feelings a name, affective forecasting, and Stumbling on Happiness reports what they and others found: people regularly mispredict how future events will make them feel.
The book explains why. Gilbert sorts the errors into three broad kinds and argues that the part of the brain that imagines the future is a recent arrival that still makes beginner's mistakes. It's funny and full of experiments, and each chapter opens with Shakespeare. At work, the practical lesson is narrower than the science: the job, raise or title you picture is a forecast, and forecasts like that can overshoot in both directions, so a check from outside your own head is worth having.
Gilbert himself isn't sure the errors are a disease that needs curing. Some have suggested, he notes, that overestimating how good success will feel keeps people working toward it and that fear keeps them careful, though on balance he thinks accurate forecasts serve people better. For a reader with a decision to make, the book is stronger on why to doubt a forecast than on how to choose.
When a decision turns on facts more than feelings, such as whether you can live on the salary, whether the role is likely to survive a reorg, or whether your visa depends on it, how you'll feel is probably the smaller question.
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