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Radical Candor
A book for bosses on caring personally while challenging directly
Why it’s worth your time
For anyone whose feedback comes out too soft, too sharp or behind someone's back, Kim Scott's Radical Candor offers a simple map of what's going wrong. It gives managers and the people they manage a shared language for it.
Giving feedback that's kind and clear
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- Read the book.
Look for the two-by-two chart at its center, with caring personally on one axis and challenging directly on the other, and the three ways feedback goes wrong when one or both are missing.
- Ask for one piece of advice.
Ask your manager or a peer what they'd have done differently in your seat this week. Listen without defending, thank them, and act on one part of it where they can see.
You“If you'd been in my seat this week, what's one thing you'd have done differently?”
Good moments for this: when you become a managerafter a meeting where nobody said what they thoughtbefore a round of 1:1s
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Making it work for you
Every workplace is different. Here’s what to think about before you start, and what might get in the way.
Things to think about
Scott's company teaches an order: ask for feedback, then give specific praise, then criticism. Someone who has watched you take criticism well is more likely to trust yours.
What might make this harder
Ask someone whose criticism tends to come with a reason, rather than the person known for being harsh, and ask what they'd try in your place.
Questions people ask
What is Radical Candor about?
A 2017 management book by Kim Scott, who worked at Google and Apple, among other companies. Its core idea is that good bosses care personally and challenge directly, both at once, and it maps what happens when one or both are missing.
What are Radical Candor's four quadrants?
Radical Candor (caring and challenging), Obnoxious Aggression (challenging without care), Ruinous Empathy (caring without challenging) and Manipulative Insincerity (neither).
Is Radical Candor the same as brutal honesty?
No. Scott files brutal honesty under obnoxious aggression; what she means includes showing you care and welcoming pushback in return.
What it says, and how it holds up
Radical Candor has often been described in the press as permission to be harsh, and Kim Scott has spent years pushing back. On her company's site she writes that articles and cartoons kept equating it with brutal honesty, the very behavior her framework names as a failure. By her account, what makes it radical is how rarely anyone manages to be kind and clear at once.
The book, drawn from Scott's experience at Google, Apple and start-ups, sets two axes against each other: caring personally and challenging directly. Miss the challenge and you get ruinous empathy, the kind silence that lets someone keep making a mistake. Miss the care and you get obnoxious aggression. Miss both and you get manipulative insincerity, flattery to someone's face and criticism behind their back. Her company's site says she sees ruinous empathy as the most common management failure, worth sitting with if you think of yourself as the nice one. A fully revised and updated edition followed the first.
The framework seems to assume enough trust and security to hear hard things. Where speaking up carries real risk, or across a wide power gap, questions about the work may be a safer first move than criticism of the person. And when the problem is a pattern of conduct, such as harassment or bias, feedback between colleagues is the wrong channel; that belongs with whoever handles conduct where you work.
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